Comments on Aaron Matthew Kaiser's Blog: No More Mr. Nice Guy... Literally.

Travis, you actually aren't getting the point of w...

2008-09-02T12:33:00.000-07:00

Travis, you actually aren't getting the point of what I wrote, so you comment is a bit off base. I'm going to try and write a follow-up to this about what this situation is and what it isn't, then maybe we will have some clarity of discussion. Basically, I think you are confusing my intention for intensity.

hey mate.. i dont like it one bit... you have tire...

2008-08-31T20:16:00.000-07:00

hey mate.. i dont like it one bit... you have tired of waiting the normal usual way.. and so after the encouragement of some blog ( is his encouragement christian based) and instead of waiting for God to move you are moving yourself.. now perhaps that is what God is calling you to do.. but unless God has called you to move.. than wait... wait and wait.. dont be rushed... take your time.. because it ALWAYS gets screwed up when we do it, but it goes correctly when God does it, so unless he has called you to act.. then just wait and pray.. plus it has only been a week ago mate.. not like 2 years.. and you know your past and how you normally operate.. if she is meant to be.. than let it happen.. not the easiest way perhaps.. but the most fulfilling... cheers
travis
Proverbs 3:3-4

Vaguely it would be emotional cheating, but if the...

2008-08-27T11:10:00.000-07:00

Vaguely it would be emotional cheating, but if their relationship is already falling apart, then maybe you would be the catalyst to make change for her.

Of course there is that risk that turnabout is fair play and later on the same will happen to you. The question then is whether or not it is better to have risked and lost, or to have just never had. This is going to vary from person to person.